After making soap, I put my bowls and tools into the dishwasher. I figured that would be easier than washing them by hand and it's only soap, right? No! It gummed up the working parts of the dishwasher. I took the dishwasher apart and am now trying to figure out how to clean the parts, as they are covered with oily soap residue. My husband has disallowed me to wash my soapmaking equipment in the sink either, because he's afraid it will clog the pipes. What do I do??
I think the only mistake you made in putting them in the dishwasher was not adding detergent (unless you just didn't mention it in the post).
The soap batter, while still liquid, hasn't quite become soap yet, it's still raw. It's capable of burning your hands and why you should keep your gloves on while cleaning up your tools, equipment, and working areas. All these things will feel oily to the touch because the salt that is soap (chemically speaking) hasn't quite formed yet, so the components are still quite separate: the lye is active and the fats still themselves.
This is why your dishwasher got quite gummed up. If you'd added detergent it would've broken up their party!
Show your exasperated hubs this post, or one from some other, more experienced soaper who has MUCH more chemistry knowledge, that it was a simple mistake that WON'T be repeated.
Happy soaping!!!